1984-1985
In last week’s story, we got to the Miami airport with all our stuff, traveled to Kingston, Jamaica, eventually made it through Immigration and Customs, and then a convoy of friends and people from Bread of Life Church got us safely to our new home in Vanity Fair, Linstead, St Catherine, Jamaica. As we settled into our pastoral duties and began to identify potential leaders in training, we were introduced to Enos Barrett, President of the Local Kiwanis Club. The Kiwanis Club had been working for over two years to start a school for developmentally disabled children. In rural Jamaica at that time “crippled” and “retarded” children, as they were thought of there and then, had nothing. Parents often kept them confined at home, even restrained if there were challenges. There was shame for the parents and abuse for the children if they were seen in public.
Enos Barrett and the Kiwanis really wanted to begin to change those attitudes and improve the outlook for those children and their families. They had secured a building on the east side of Linstead, remodeled it, furnished it, and had teams of “recruiters” going through the nearby villages and bush settlements to find the children with special needs and win the approval of their parents to allow them to come to the school.
The Peace Corps was involved and had been able to get some supplies and materials from the US Embassy in Kingston. Now they needed a teacher to get the school started! When Enos Barrett found out about our nineteen-year-old daughter Stephanie and that she had some experience with special needs children, he immediately asked if she’d be willing to be the teacher! So God did one of those “God Things”!
I’ll let Stephanie take it from here (The following is Stephanie’s Story):
When I was a student at Mid High (8-9th grade) in Medford, Oregon, I got involved in a Program called the SKY Club sponsored by the local Kiwanis Club. Sky Club students volunteered to work in special education classes throughout Medford schools helping teachers work with their students. It was an incredible experience and gave me me such a sense of purpose and joy working with the kids and seeing the sense of accomplishment they experienced!
Then life took a bit of a turn! In my 11th grade year, our family made the decision to move to Jamaica to serve as missionaries. After discussing things with my parents, I chose to take my GED a year early and not try to do a senior year in another country. The plan was to spend some time in Jamaica with my family and then move back to the US to attend college. That summer (1984) we moved to Springfield, Missouri to prepare for our move to Jamaica, and arrived in Linstead, St Catherine, Jamaica in October.
In Linstead we lived on the church property and we all got involved in church life pretty quickly. My dad was getting involved in life in the community outside the church as well. He was doing devotions for Dinthill Technical High School. In conversations with Enos Barrett, the Principal of the school, Dad talked about Melissa and me and told the principal of my plans for future education in Special Ed. The principal asked if I would be interested in helping to start a school in Linstead for special needs kids. In thinking back it is pretty crazy that a nineteen-year-old who hadn’t even really finished high school was helping to start a school for special needs kids. How does that even happen?
It all happened so fast! A lovely lady named Liz from the Peace Corps came along to help and there were a few moms of the future students and a teacher from one of the local schools that helped as well. I remember meeting the principal at the building where the school was going to be. It was so clean and had 2 class rooms. They had worked so hard on it, and it was amazing! It was pink on the outside and the security bars, which were a necessity there, were painted a cheerful red and white. There were school desks and supplies. We decorated the rooms with alphabets and numbers and lots of cheerful pictures. Then suddenly the school was open and I was the teacher!
I remember being nervous and feeling a bit of the “I don’t think I can do this” – impostor syndrome before it had a name. I also remember feeling so grateful that I got to be a part of bringing hope and help to these overlooked, disadvantaged children. We were full-up from the start. I remember one little boy the most. His name was Dougie. He was an amazing little kid with Downs Syndrome, and I can see him and his mom coming up the stairs. She was pretty shy and hanging back a bit but Dougie was pulling her up the stairs and ready to go! He was dressed in his Sunday best and had the biggest smile. His mom was so proud of him and proud that he was going to be able to go to school! This opportunity was huge for them. Dougie greeted us the same way every morning—a huge smile and a big hug!
The school continued after I left to go back to the states, and I know that it changed my life in many ways! It changed how I saw the world outside of myself and I realized that saying “Yes!” to something I don’t think I can do, can change more than just my own life. I didn’t end up completing a degree in Special Education. Instead, I came back to Jamaica after a year of college to help my parents with the Bible Training Centre they were developing in Kingston. I tutored the special needs son of another missionary couple in Kingston for a few months. Then I moved back to the States with my sister and got involved in ministry in the church we were attending in Atlanta. I worked several jobs involving office work and I managed a retail store. But I have never lost my heart for children with special needs.
In 2007 my husband and I adopted our son Jesse. He is an amazing kid and my heart swells every time I think about him! When he started school he was so excited and I was too. But that year wasn’t what we expected. He struggled with the class, with the curriculum, with behavior, with school. It was really hard and very sad! But the next year he had a wonderful teacher who saw Jesse as a person and saw who he was behind the struggle. She helped us get him diagnosed (ADD) and into a program that gave him resources and strategies that changed not just his school experience but his whole life. I believe that in my little school in Jamaica in the 80’s, God was preparing me and my heart for Jesse!
Our education system is not built for kids that don’t fit into a box so we have had to fight for Jesse’s education. It has been a tough road but I know God has placed people along our path to help us. There were so many times where I felt some of the feelings of hope and thankfulness that I experienced when working in the school in Jamaica!
Jesse was in middle school when COVID happened. That meant that he started going to school online and it really changed his education experience. He thrived! When COVID was over, he just wanted to continue with online school. We found a school – it was online and local, but the struggle continued. We were denied the transfer and had to appeal. Our family prayed and I prayerfully and thoughtfully wrote our appeal. We sent it and again I believe that God went before us. Jesse was released and was able to start his new on-line high school journey. Jesse and I worked together, argued together, and celebrated victories together. I know my time working in the special education classes and the school in Jamaica helped me help Jesse.
Jesse is amazing and has fought many battles in his time in school. I’m so proud of him! As I’m writing this, Jesse is on a week-long trip to Washington DC with other students just before he graduates this June. God has been so faithful to bring people into our lives, direct us to the right programs and schools, and strengthen our family through this journey! And God used my time with the kids at the little school in Linstead all those years ago for purposes I couldn’t even have imagined!
Jim here: Thanks so much, Stephanie, for your story about the school in Linstead, St Catherine, Jamaica, and how it helped not only those kids forty years ago, but is still helping today!
Next week, we’re going to continue with some stories about our early days in Jamaica. It’s been so good to remember and relive these experiences of God’s faithfulness!
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Grace to you today, Jim Stephens
